You can have practically all the positive attributes of an ultra-successful person including talent, high character, ambition, kindness, creativity and much more. But, as we discover in Influence & Insights Video #2, titled, “The Importance of Mastering People Skills” unless you can influence others, your chances of attaining that stratospheric type of success is somewhat limited.
This new video series is titled, “Influence & Success Insights.” In this video we’ll discover how, with a few simple words and the correct attitude, I was able quickly diffuse what could very well have been a potentially very uncomfortable situation. As you listen to the story look at some of what you see as the key elements that resulted in this very positive outcome.
You’re now on a roll as you’ve already received several referrals via asking correctly; gently funneling down their world into small groups of people they can easily picture in their mind’s eye. But there’s no reason to stop now. And in Endless Referrals Action Tip #22 we’ll explore some additional frames you can utilize that can easily result in additional referrals.
In Endless Referrals Action Tip #21 you’ll discover the exact wording that will instead help your referral source to picture exactly the people you should be speaking with…and be able to tell you. Bonus: It’s VERY simple!
You’ve created the perfect context to receive lots of high-quality referrals. Now you need to apply the third part of the referral-asking process, which is to ask. However…you need to ask *correctly* otherwise you’ll hear the all-too-common response, “I can’t think of anybody right now but, when I do, I’ll let you know.”
The next part of our three-part referral process is to provide your referral source with what I call the “How to Know” statement. This will help your referral source to understand the type of person who is your ideal prospective customer or client; one to whom you’d like to be referred. In Endless Referrals Action Tip #19 we’ll walk through…
Now it’s look at the last half of the Referral Bridge and discover the magic in the last part of this powerfully-effective phrase. In Endless Referrals Action Tip #18 you’ll see how words can truly paint a picture, and how the right words can truly communicate a sense of confidence in you…
From the last video, you are now familiar with the very important Referral Bridge, the first part of the three-step process of asking for referrals. But why is the Referral Bridge — or Bridge Phrase — so important? Why is it so very effective in setting the frame for a rewarding referral experience both for you and for your referral source?
So it’s time to ask for the referral(s) from your new client, or even a non-client with whom you have created that “know, like, and trust” relationship. Great! The key to asking effectively involves three distinct (yet easy to understand and simple to apply) parts. In Action Tip #16 you’ll be introduced to the first part, which is “The Referral Bridge.”
While building these powerful relationships with those you are adding to your network, you might be wondering how long it will be until you can legitimately approach them regarding asking for referrals. Easy to see how one might be concerned with either asking too early, or even waiting too long.