Define Your Terms – Avoid Misunderstandings

How often does an argument ensue and hurt feelings result from an exchange of well-intentioned, or even neutral (i.e., information-type) words when, with a little bit of thought, clarification and definition, such misunderstandings, unhappiness and even resentment could easily be avoided? Example: Pat tells you the party tonight begins at 7:30, “dressy-casual” and it won’t…